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Conscious uncoupling's natural segue to divorce mediation

If the term "conscious uncoupling" rings a bell at all for you, it likely does so in connection with divorce stories related to actress Gwyneth Paltrow and her ex-spouse Chris Martin, the front man for the rock group Coldplay.

That phrase notably had its day following Paltrow's use of the expression to denote a divorce of generally softer dimensions than what is customarily envisioned by many people. In a nutshell, conscious uncoupling was intended to convey a separation and ultimate marital dissolution marked by careful reflection and mutual respect that would keep family relations civil and even nurturing following a final legal severing of marriage.

In a sense, the stated goals and overall tenor of the Paltrow/Martin uncoupling are quite reminiscent of the atmosphere and objectives that are purposefully pursued in divorce mediation and other types of collaborative divorce. The emphasis in such divorce processes -- especially as they contrast to what typically features in a contested split that plays out in a courtroom and under the close oversight of a judge -- is on civility, a sincere attempt to work out problems and find mutually workable solutions, and work that is creatively done to help ensure that the continued bonds of family life persist post-divorce.

Put another way: Divorce mediation and other dissolution-related processes that make a point of stressing things like fairness and enduring amicability are decidedly not about burning bridges and waving a permanent goodbye the moment a divorce decree is inked.

A recent media article discussing the Paltrow/Martin relationship firmly indicates that the couple's bridges remain solidly intact.

Such an outcome is often possible for couples who make a real effort to remain civil both during and following the divorce process. A proven alternative dispute resolution attorney experienced in collaborative law and divorce mediation can provide relevant information.

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